Anon needs a good response

In this biz these are known as “thought-terminating clichés.”

“I do tend to overexplain and I’m sorry, please shut me down if I do, but please believe me when I tell you that I overexplain everyone and it has nothing to do with your perceived gender, I just have the *tism.” - this is my usually response because it’s true.

Stop talking.

Either you’re being an arse or they are.

Ask “Why do you feel that’s what I’m doing?” then reflect on the answer and how your behaviour was perceived this way. Finally, if after reflection you come to the conclusion that indeed you acted poorly, apologise and try to behave differently in the future.

yo, did the fucking misogyny of 4chan get exported with this post or why are u all acting like chuds rn??

Reflect upon how you are acting. Empathize with the other person’s POV. Then discuss rationally from a point of mutual benefit.