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- 5 days
I’m closeted. Also not attempted any transitioning. I take the “female” role on discord, and that’s the best I can do.
You’re exactly as trans as I am. It’s how you feel inside about yourself, and that feeling exists whether the rest of the world acknowledges it or not. Fuck closets, the scariest person to come out to is yourself.
- 4 days
I don’t worry myself about wasting life. At least not in the way people often mean it.
Sounds like quitter talk. You got one life to live. Don’t kill the girl you’re meant to be.
- 4 days
“meant to be”
That’s the thing. Everything is always in the future. Everything’s always tomorrow. Everything is always over the horizon, and then everything will be as it should be. Life’s treated like an inconvenient, high maintenance gift we didn’t ask for. “Don’t fuck it up. Dont fuck it up. Always become. Never just be”
Look if I have an opportunity to transition I will. There’d be no reason not to. But I’d still be me. And that’s really all I want. I want to be me right now and then die when it’s time.
I’m just saying you are denying yourself a great deal of happiness. It’s not about reaching some idealized final state. It’s about living a life of joy instead of the alternative.
- 5 days
My brother’s old kid has they/them pronouns on discord and it makes me wonder.
I wish my family would be this chill about it.
It’s gonna be an interesting day when they eventually figure it out.
- 5 days
I’m sorry, but I’m just imagining you gradually becoming more and more profoundly, exaggeratedly, and unmistakably feminine and your parents dropping by, asking only whether you got a haircut.
- 5 days
I’m imagining the mom figuring it out right away, while the dad is either in denial, or a moron.
Like she’s standing there with 44DDs, in a ball gown and tiarra. And her dad is like “Sooooo, how bout them bears?”
And she’s like “…what?”
And he’s like “Season just started. How do you like our boys odds this year?”
And she’s like “I don’t like the boys chances this year.”
And it’s two unrelated conversations overlapping.
- 5 days
My nephew has been on T for a while now. He told his mom the deep voice was from COVID 🤣 he’s planning on waiting till after top surgery to tell her so she doesn’t kick him off her insurance. I think she’ll be supportive, but there’s trust issues between them.
- 5 days
If there’s even an inkling of doubt, it feels totally reasonable to hide treatment. I hope that they will understand, when your nephew finally comes out, just how important this is.
I regretted coming ouy to my family, when i told my mom she said she was going to tell my dad so i had to tell everyone before i was ready
leave me alone, like you had for a decade by that point, please
5 daysKids being kids don’t realize how much parents see, just because parents have experience, and know more about the world and the possibilities.
Parents often suspect before the kid is even thinking about it. Some parents shove their heads in the sand, and vehemently reject the idea, we all know who, and pity the kid with those parents. Others are cool about it. Or, cool enough, it can be hard to accept when the realization first comes.
- 5 days
Being on Es contionuously for months? Sounds crazy, imagine the jaw clench…
- humorlessrepost@lemmy.worldEnglish5 days
As long as you mean estrogen, and not pressed questionably-mdma pills, yes.
Can confirm, I was aroace before E. Now I’m a raging homosexual with three partners and no genitals. This morning we played Big Walk together!
- 5 days
Living the dream! My gaming group picked up Big Walk when it came out but we’ve but yet had time to play together.
It’s really fun! I recommend allocating at least two hours per session; this game benefits from sinking your teeth into it.
- 5 days
It can even make you gay
What’s with that? Even trans guys go horny AND gay while on T.
Yeah, they’re called dance titties. It happens because when you dance too much while on E your nipples chafe from friction within your clothes and your nipples swell up and become huge.
- 5 days
This is wholesome and cute. Wishing all the support for everyone in these situations.
- okwhateverdude@lemmy.worldEnglish5 days
I agree, cars are gross. It is mega unfortunate that car infrastructure is so dominant when there is a better way.
They’re stinky and noisy and they get in the way all the time. They’re a nuisance!
I somehow missed the parent comment and thought this was about boobs, I was like true true… wait, noisy?
- 5 days
I mean, we can say the same about cats though…but nobody wants to get rid of cats! If anything you collect them!
Does the transsexual webcomic character require your approval, internet stranger?
Shut up and let people enjoy things.
Somehow I couldn’t even imagine that it was transphobia. I was trying to find a justification for the comment, and transphobia didn’t come to my mind. Thanks lemmy for being so queer that I forgot about that :)
