This is my experience as well. I think it’s arrogance to a degree “we’ve been making cars for 140 years, we know how do it” - and then they fail miserably.

My issue is that a lot of manufacturers have tried, incorrectly, to mimic Tesla in ways they don’t understand.

Tesla have a 16" screen in their car.

Ford: We put a 17" screen in our car!

Tesla: You can watch movies, play video games, browse the internet, etc. when you’re charging (as it used to take a long time - but we’ve kept the big screen).

Ford: You’ve got a bit ole screen! It’s bigger than a Tesla’s! Your driving map is huuuge. When you’re charging you can watch it charge - in HD!