The answer is obviously ‘it depends’.

Do you want to be an asshole to your parents? Do you want to keep things civil?

The most responsible and mature answer is probably, just ignore them and actively be out of their communication reach. This means physically (don’t be in the same room/house as them) and digitally (turn off notifications from them).

Proton Pass for me since I use their VPN.

Vaultwarden for selfhosting.

I don’t want to see ‘explain the joke’ communities.

Some jokes are meant to be inside jokes, do your own research it takes a few secs, and the communities just become repost farms.

Upgrade my server/storage. I only have 1.5tb of storage total for everything including my music, shows, etc.

But I am able to manage it, so I can’t really justify buying more storage for it when I technically don’t need it.

Also, if you wanted something more customized and jerry rigged, push notifications is very easy with ntfy. Its just a webhook so you could theoretically make anything a notification.

Baikal backend, DAVx5 android app and tasks.org android app.

Thats what you want. All open source.

Been using for notifications for a while and its great.

Self-Hoster 🏡

• Fleet: 2–3 devices · 1–4 TB
• Motivation: Independence from Big Tech & subscriptions, Learning & experimenting, Privacy & data ownership
• My MVPs: Actual Budget, Baikal, Memos, Termix, Jellyfin