So there’s something I’ve been dealing with but have no frame of reference for handling. I had a bad ex who was a low-key chaser and even physically hurt me near the end of the relationship but may have come out as trans themself idk. Other trans people love this person and I think they spread rumors about me because local queer communities have been hostile towards me.

The whole thing was frustrating especially because I’m still dealing with transphobia from other people. I feel kind of done with trans communities because of stuff like this but I’m not sure.