Right? I’m a swe, happily partnered up, and the times I was single, easily partnered up. The problem isn’t being a tech bro, the problem is being a fuckin wet noodle of a person. I’ve got the same hobbyist servers, the same half-finished coding projects I’ll never get done, the same 40k models, the same flab. I just also stand for good things and act on those beliefs, and live every day demonstrating that if you’re fash or fash-adjacent, you’re not safe here, and if you’re anti-those things then I’m great.

… Claude make an app based on this post /s

For real though, as someone who bit the bullet and ended my relationship, it’s hard. I wish them well, and after they moved out I still fear one of us isn’t going to make it. Having a way to find a decent roommate easily would be nice.